can we negate the existing of true love?

In most cases we think: this is true love, when in fact it’s not. But than if this ain’t love than what it is? There are plenty of things that we confuse with love.
It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy.And after it all the misunderstanding starts, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they don’t even know what to talk with each other.

Another variant is when people lack support, care and attention to their person or they just scared to stay single. Being with someone can be a habit when one simply got used to the other. It can either be a sick addiction or some self-interest. People call all these types of relationship love just by mistake or trying to conceal the true nature of it.

But than what does real love look and feel like? Maybe it’s when two people seem to know each other for ages and even in their previous lives. They can go on talking and talking and conversation never lacks topics and never gets dull. Or people don’t have to say anything because they understand each other without words. And those moments, minutes and even hours of silence are never uncomfortable. True love is when partners complete one another, when they’re together it’s peaceful, the whole other world with it’s sufferings and problems doesn’t exist and nothing even matters.

True love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes.

It’s said that two persons truly in love aren’t looking at each other but in the one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say nothing “this is yours and this is mine” and share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems and etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “I belong you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy.

Jealousy stands out of the true love. How can one be jealous if there’s so much love and faithfulness? Real love doesn’t long for power, it doesn’t want to hurt, doesn’t want to punish for mistakes, it’s self-sacrificing and ready to forgive other and other again. But it’s wrong to think that true love is always a suffering, it only means that you take a person as he or she is and don’t expect the one you love to be perfect.

True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a and very special state of a soul.
But the question that true love is still has no definite answer. Do we truly love only once in our life? At what age are we supposed to meet our love? Does it last for a lifetime or just for a while? Probably everyone has his own answers to this questions. The truth is that no one should spend life chasing ideals or building relationships by some model of a true love. One will probably fail and miss the real thing beyond all this.

We should remember that very many things we need to supply our healthy and comfortable living but only the true feeling of love makes life really longer and happier. And this is scientifically proved.^^(mY thEory again,copyrighted)Eventually myself is in love with a girl too,but yet it is just a feeling that conceal in my heart,signifying nothing but harsh,endless grief.....................




Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud. It is not rude,
it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
—I Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

Picked from The King James Bible

Malaysia broughtly presents you the most romantic,heart-touching fIlm

Despite all those eclipse and nightmare malaysian having,Malaysia broughtly presents you the "Winter Sonata,Love in Surau"written by Anwar.This has clearly shown that Malaysia is on their way to succeed their dream by involving themself in hollywood.Besides,those breath-taking scene will sincerely make viewers cry for every 5 minutes.This film was taken in 2008 ,February 19 and will be debut onto the scene on 2008,December 30.It was also the first malaysia's movie to be broadcast on TV1.The film soundtrack was the best selling album in the entire world."Winter Sonata,Love in Surau"was filmed in Sungai Petani,second street(which well known by those native as ji geh in hokkien).The perfect landscape second street posessed had fully enhanced all the scene of the movie.Below we brings you a sneak peek into the poster of this gigantic movie.

































Directed by :Samy velu
Produced by:Png Gaik Meng
Written by :Anwar Ibrahim

Starring :Pak Lah as Kang Joon Sang / Lee Min Hyung
:Najib as Jung Yu-jin
:Mahathir as Kim Sang-Hyuk



The families of Kim Sang-Hyuk, a boy who is a Sophomore in High School, and a girl named Jung Yu-Jin in his same class have been friends for many years, and thus Sang-Hyuk and Yu-Jin have known each ther all their lives. Sang-Hyuk longs to have a romantic relationship with Yu-Jin, but she seems oblivious to his longing, and therefore they just continue as strong friends and companions.
Into their lives one day comes transfer student Kang Joon-Sang. He is lame,ugly and a paranormal student at mathematics, but he seems to carry a chip on his shoulder, and his behavior is surly and hot.
Nevertheless, Sang-Hyuk and Yu-Jin and their accepting and amicable friends let Joon-sang into their circle. At a weekend retreat at a cabin the woods, Yu-Jin falls into a dangerous situation and Joon-Sang saves her life. Her gratitude opens Joon-Sang's heart, and the two fall deeply in love. However, their joy is not to last, as a tragic event ends their romance.
Ten years later the friends are all successful young professionals. Sang-Hyuk and Yu-Jin are betrothed and planning to marry soon. While walking to the engagement party Yu-Jin suddenly spots a man in the crowd who looks astonishingly like Joon-Sang. Her shock is so great that she faints on the street, for she has never really gotten over him, and the wedding is postponed.
It turns out that the man is Lee Min-Hyung, an architect whose firm has hired Yu-Jin's company on contract. Yu-Jin is astounded by the resemblance, but it's apparent that Min-Hyung has no knowledge of Joon-Sang, and his warm and humorous personality is entirely different.
A series of events has been set in motion, however, that will alter the course of the lives of everyone.

dAd,tHanks for the splendid love you've give 2 me

It has been 23 days since my dad leave us and continue his journey to another world,and in this lonely,rainy night,I listen to a few songs which makes me recall the events when my dad was still alive.Moreover,he's abit childish= =..but,I still remember the love he gave me,and he taught memuch about something that is essential in our daily life....Although dad was no longer be by my sides,but I know that courage is needed to continue my life,because my dad had told me before:"RJ,you are a man,in the future you must take care of your family,your love,so don't stop because of the obstacles you meet,or anything that stop you from achieving your goals,you must be independent,caring,and the most important is,love the poor,help those who need,and becomes a responsible man!"Oh heavenly father,I realize that the life for me and my dad no longer be lingered on,so I pray to you that please tell my dad how much I love him and although I'm upset,but I'll still try to be tough and continue my road to success,and I commit this prayer in Jesus name,Amen.....dAds,i promise your teaching will etch in my memory forever,lOv3 you dAd,the greatest dAd in the world,and the most childish = =(always bully me and my brother at home= =,but sometimes he get some punishment from me 2,lolz)

Below I present you the song title and the lyrics I listen to and connect my heart to the wonderful story when my dad was still alive


Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Words By:Elton John

What have I got to do to make you love me

What have I got to do to make you care

What do I do when lightning strikes me

And I wake to find that you're not there

What do I do to make you want me

What have I got to do to be heard

What do I say when it's all over

And sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad, so sadIt's a sad, sad situation

And it's getting more and more absurd

It's sad, so sadWhy can't we talk it over

Oh it seems to me

That sorry seems to be the hardest word

What do I do to make you love me

What have I got to do to be heard

What do I do when lightning strikes me

What have I got to do

What have I got to do

When sorry seems to be the hardest word



Here I Am By:Air Supply

Here I am playing with those memories again

And just when I thought time had set me free

Those thoughts of you keep taunting me

Holding you, a feeling I never outgrew

Though each and every part of me has tried

Only you can fill that space inside

So theres no sense pretending

My heart its not mending(chorus)

Just when I thought I was over you

And just when I thought I could stand on my own

Oh baby those memories come crashing through

And I just cant go on without

On my own Ive tried to make the best of it alone

Ive done everything I can to ease the pain

But only you can stop the rain

I just cant live without you

I miss everything about you(chorus)

Just when I thought I was over you

And just when I thought I could stand on my own

Oh baby those memories come crashing through

And I just cant go on without

Go on without

Its just no good without you